Danah Boyd: Why Parents Help Tweens Violate Facebook’s 13+ Rule
"At what age should I let my child join Facebook?" This is a question that countless parents have asked my collaborators and me. Often, it's followed by the following: "I know that 13 is the minimum age to join Facebook, but is it really so bad that my 12-year-old is on the site?" While parents are struggling to determine what social media sites are appropriate for their children, government tries to help parents by regulating what data internet companies can collect about children without parental permission. Yet, as has been the case for the last decade, this often backfires. Many general-purpose communication platforms and social media sites restrict access to only those 13+ in response to a law meant to empower parents: the Children's Online Privacy Protection Act (COPPA). This forces parents to make a difficult choice: help uphold the minimum age requirements and limit their children's access to services that let kids connect with family and friends OR help their children lie about their age to circumvent the age-based restrictions and eschew the protections that COPPA is meant to provide.
This is a very interesting article about parents' attitudes towards the federal government's age restrictions on the Web. As we all know, the restrictions turn out to be meaningless, and of little value. We are better off giving parents the tools they need to parent verus somehow convincing ourselves that an unenforceable age restriction is going to be of any assistance to the challenges of keeping kids safe online.